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Homemade Tomato & Chilli Relish

What better way to finish off a paleo burger, than with a generous serving of homemade relish? This relish is tomato and chilli – but unlike most relish recipes, I've used medjool dates instead of sugar to add some sweetness.

If you like your relish hot, add some more chillies to your mixture. This Tomato & Chilli Relish is perfect for adding a spicy kick to your meals while keeping it Paleo.

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Recipe: Tomato & Chilli Relish

This Tomato & Chilli Relish is a perfect Paleo condiment to top off your burgers or use as a dip. Made with medjool dates for natural sweetness, it combines the rich flavours of tomatoes and chillies to create a deliciously spicy and slightly sweet relish.
Prep Time10 minutes
Cook Time45 minutes
Total Time55 minutes
Course: Condiments, Sauces
Cuisine: Barbecue, Paleo
Keyword: Homemade Relish, Paleo Relish, Spicy Condiment, Tomato & Chilli Relish
Servings: 8
Calories: 50kcal
Cost: 10

Equipment

  • Pan

Ingredients

  • 1 tsp extra virgin olive oil
  • 1 white onion diced
  • 3 cloves garlic finely diced
  • 1/2 eggplant aubergine
  • 3 medjool dates diced
  • 80 ml red wine vinegar
  • 4 chillies chopped (try a mixture of red and green)
  • 1/2 tsp fennel seeds
  • 1/2 tsp coriander seeds
  • 250 g cherry tomatoes
  • celtic sea salt & ground black pepper to taste

Instructions

  • Heat the Oil: First, heat the olive oil in a pan over a low heat.
  • Cook the Aromatics: Next, add the diced onion and garlic to the pan. Fry until they start to turn soft and translucent.
  • Add the Eggplant and Dates: Then, add in the diced eggplant and medjool dates. Cook for 4-5 minutes, stirring often.
  • Add the Vinegar: Pour in the red wine vinegar and reduce the temperature to a simmer. Simmer until the liquid has reduced to approximately half its original volume.
  • Add the Remaining Ingredients: Add in the chopped chillies, fennel seeds, coriander seeds, and cherry tomatoes. Reduce the heat to a low setting and stir regularly.
  • Simmer: Allow the mixture to simmer for about half an hour, stirring occasionally.
  • Season and Cool: Finally, season with Celtic sea salt and ground black pepper to taste. Remove from the heat and allow the relish to cool before serving.

Why Make Your Own Paleo-Friendly Relish?

Store-bought relishes are often packed with refined sugars, preservatives, and mysterious ingredients that have no place in a Paleo lifestyle. Creating your own Tomato & Chilli Relish gives you full control over what goes into your food. It’s a simple recipe, but the result is full of robust flavour – sweet, tangy, spicy, and completely natural.

Using medjool dates instead of sugar is a game-changer. They add natural sweetness and a depth of flavour that processed sugar simply can't replicate. Dates also bring a subtle caramel richness and are a great source of dietary fibre, potassium, and antioxidants.

The Perfect Burger Companion

This relish is the ultimate companion for a juicy Paleo burger. Whether you’re making beef, lamb, chicken, or even a veggie-based patty, the richness of the tomato combined with the mild heat from the chillies will take your burger to a whole new level. The relish adds moisture and flavour to every bite without overpowering the main ingredients.

Try it on top of a sweet potato bison burger or pair it with a bunless lamb burger, and you’ll see just how versatile this condiment can be.

Ingredients You Can Trust

The key to a great relish is starting with quality ingredients. Here’s what makes this recipe stand out:

  • Fresh tomatoes: Ripe, juicy tomatoes form the heart of this relish. Use organic if you can, and opt for roma or truss tomatoes for deeper flavour.
  • Chillies: Choose red chillies for both colour and heat. Adjust the quantity based on your spice preference.
  • Medjool dates: These natural sweeteners balance the acidity of the tomatoes and the spice from the chillies beautifully.
  • Garlic and onion: Essential for depth and savoury richness.
  • Apple cider vinegar: Adds a touch of tang and helps preserve the relish naturally.

Every ingredient in this recipe is Paleo-compliant and unprocessed, supporting a clean eating approach that doesn’t compromise on taste.

How to Customise the Heat Level

Spice tolerance varies widely from person to person. The great thing about this relish is that it’s easy to adjust. If you like it mild, reduce the number of chillies or remove the seeds. If you love heat, keep the seeds in and consider adding a pinch of cayenne or a hotter variety of chilli like bird’s eye or habanero.

You can also add a teaspoon of smoked paprika for a deeper, more earthy heat that complements grilled meats beautifully.

Versatile Ways to Use Tomato & Chilli Relish

Once you’ve made a jar of this relish, you’ll find endless ways to enjoy it:

  • As a topping for burgers, grilled meats, or sausages
  • Served alongside scrambled eggs or an omelette
  • As a dip for sweet potato wedges or vegetable sticks
  • Spread on Paleo crackers or lettuce wraps
  • Swirled through cauliflower rice or mash for added flavour

This relish can also be stirred into soups or stews for a kick of flavour, or even used as a marinade base when mixed with olive oil and lemon juice.

How to Store Your Homemade Relish

Once cooled, this relish can be stored in a clean, sterilised glass jar in the fridge for up to two weeks. If you’d like to keep it longer, consider freezing it in small batches using silicone ice cube trays or freezer-safe jars. That way, you always have a flavour booster ready to go.

Be sure to use a clean spoon each time to prevent contamination and maximise shelf life. As there are no artificial preservatives in this recipe, proper storage is key.

Make It in Batches

This recipe is easy to scale up. Make a larger batch and store some jars for later or share them as thoughtful, homemade gifts. A jar of Paleo-friendly Tomato & Chilli Relish tied with a piece of twine and a handwritten label makes a charming and practical present for foodies and health-conscious friends alike.

Health Benefits of the Key Ingredients

  • Tomatoes: Rich in lycopene, a powerful antioxidant that supports heart health and reduces inflammation.
  • Chillies: Contain capsaicin, known for its metabolism-boosting and pain-relief properties.
  • Medjool dates: Provide fibre, minerals, and a natural source of energy without spiking blood sugar as rapidly as refined sugars.
  • Garlic: Anti-inflammatory, antibacterial, and a supporter of immune function.
  • Apple cider vinegar: Aids digestion and helps balance blood sugar levels.

Batch Cooking Tip: Use in Meal Prep

If you like to batch cook your meals for the week, this relish will quickly become a staple in your kitchen. Make a few jars at once and use it to add flavour to your proteins, vegetables, and lunchboxes. It’s especially handy when time is short, and you want to elevate simple meals without fuss.

A Delicious Way to Avoid Hidden Sugars

Creating this Tomato & Chilli Relish is a fantastic way to enjoy a spicy and slightly sweet condiment that fits perfectly into a Paleo lifestyle. The combination of fresh tomatoes, chillies, and medjool dates creates a rich and flavourful relish that enhances any dish.

Many relishes on the market contain high-fructose corn syrup, preservatives, and gums. This version skips all of that and instead focuses on natural sweetness and bold, clean flavours. It’s proof that you don’t need additives to make something taste amazing.

Final Thoughts

This relish is versatile and can be used as a topping for burgers, a dip for vegetables, or even a spread for sandwiches. It's a healthy and delicious alternative to store-bought relishes, packed with natural ingredients and no added sugars.

I hope you enjoy making and eating this Tomato & Chilli Relish. For more creative and healthy Paleo recipes, be sure to explore my blog. I’d love to hear your thoughts and any variations you made to the recipe, so please share in the comments below. Happy cooking and enjoy your relish!

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Paleo Comfort Foods

I've had Julie and Charles Mayfield’s “Paleo Comfort Foods” cookbook for some time.  Despite reading it from cover to cover, I had not actually got round to cooking from it, until earlier this week.

I was limited for time, but wanted to make a Paleo friendly appetizer/ hors d'œuvre to take along to a Primal dinner I was going.  The bacon wrapped dates recipe looked perfect.  I usually try to steer away from dried fruit as it is so high in sugar, but in serving something like this before dinner each person only has two or three, so the sugar impact is minimised.

These are so many different variants of this meat wrapped dish – angels on horseback (oysters wrapped in bacon), devils on horseback (prunes of figs wrapped in bacon) and even the British favourite pigs in blankets – cocktail sausages wrapped in bacon.  The version in Paleo Comfort Foods is very simple, using just dates, bacon and almonds inside.

Paleo Bacon-Wrapped Dates – A Comfort Food Favourite

I quite simply pitted the dates, replacing the stone with a couple of raw almonds.  I then cut some organic bacon to size and wrapped it around the date, holding it in place with a cocktail stick (actually, several cocktail sticks!).  I put these in the oven to crisp the bacon, turning a couple of times.

I find Australian bacon seems to contain a lot less fat than American bacon (I'm always surprised American’s get enough bacon grease left over to be able to use it for other things).  This makes it harder to mould the bacon around the date, but using more cocktail sticks did the job!

I also made the Carrot & Fennel salad (again!) from the Everyday Paleo Cookbook, which is fast becoming a favourite!  Why have a boring salad, when you can have something a bit different?

I love to take time cooking, but sometimes it’s nice to have Paleo dishes that can be made quickly and simply.

My Paleo Comfort Foods book is full of paper markers on all of the recipes I intend to try – hopefully I'll get a chance to try some of the sauces – Mayonnaise, Ketchup, Gravy and Barbecue sauce this weekend – handy recipes to have up my sleeve as they can go with so many meals.  I'm also interested in the Paleo bread recipe – I wonder whether this would be a good alternative to offer to those friends who find bread to hard to give up?

Have you tried any of the recipes from Paleo Comfort Foods yet?  Which is your favourite cookbook?

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Expanding Your Paleo Repertoire

Once you’ve mastered the simpler starters and salads, the real fun begins with exploring heartier comfort food classics. Recipes such as meatloaf, shepherd’s pie, and even fried chicken can all be adapted to be Paleo-friendly. Instead of breadcrumbs, almond meal or coconut flour can provide a suitable crunch, and ghee or animal fats can take the place of butter for that perfect texture and taste.

Planning for Everyday Paleo

It’s one thing to cook Paleo on a weekend when you’ve got the time – but what about weekday dinners or lunch prep? The best thing about the Paleo Comfort Foods cookbook is that many of the recipes scale well. You can make a big batch of meatballs, patties, or vegetable bakes on a Sunday and eat well all week. Pairing dishes with a zesty side salad or roasted root veg keeps things interesting and ensures you’re not relying on nuts or fruit to fill you up.

Entertaining Paleo Style

One of the biggest questions I get is what to serve friends who aren’t Paleo when entertaining. Dishes like bacon-wrapped dates are perfect because they feel indulgent, but they’re actually quite simple. Add a fresh salsa, guacamole, or a nut-based dip, and you’ve got a winning platter. Many of the dishes from Paleo Comfort Foods work well as shared meals – think casseroles, slow-cooked stews, and oven bakes with layered flavour and a side of roasted greens.

Making Paleo Work for Families

If you’ve got kids or a partner who’s not completely onboard with Paleo, it helps to start with the familiar. That’s why the idea of comfort food is so powerful – people love familiar textures and flavours. Paleo lasagne with zucchini ribbons, shepherd’s pie with cauliflower mash, and slow-cooked brisket are usually big wins in most households. Making a weekly meal plan from the cookbook and getting the family involved can make the transition smoother and more enjoyable for everyone.

The Importance of Good Ingredients

With any Paleo recipe, the outcome hinges on the quality of the ingredients. Organic or pastured bacon, fresh herbs, and high-quality oils make a noticeable difference. If you’re already investing the time to cook from scratch, it makes sense to source the best ingredients you can. Supporting your local butcher or farmers market not only supports your health but your community too.

Getting Creative and Adapting Recipes

Not every recipe needs to be followed to the letter. One of the strengths of Paleo Comfort Foods is that it encourages experimentation. You might swap out almonds for macadamias, add rosemary or chilli for a twist, or serve with a side of sauerkraut or kimchi. Once you become comfortable with a few go-to techniques, you'll find it's easy to modify and adapt for your own preferences and pantry.

Final Thoughts on Paleo Comfort Foods

Whether you’re just starting out on your Paleo journey or looking to expand your culinary skills, Paleo Comfort Foods is a great companion. It strikes a balance between accessible meals and the kind of indulgent food you might have thought was off-limits. With a little prep and creativity, even a busy week can be full of delicious, comforting Paleo dishes. I’ll definitely be sharing more of my favourites from this book as I try them – and I’d love to hear yours too!

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