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How To Deal With A Non Supportive Partner

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It seems fairly common in the Paleo community for people to have a significant other, or family, who aren't quite as supportive with the whole Paleo diet thing. At least not yet…

So if you’re convinced that eating Paleo is right for you (and right for most people!) how do you deal with a non-supportive partner or family?

Do you try to convince them and force them to buy into a Paleo diet? Do you relent and go back to your old ways, as it’s just too hard to fight? Or do you carry on regardless?

Are They Receptive?

If your partner is interested in what you’re doing – lend them your Paleo books and show them your favourite sites. Be on hand to answer their questions – and show case some great Paleo meals to demonstrate how well you can eat.

Are They Hostile?

Unfortunately, often partners and family can be less than enthusiastic about a new diet. They might be jealous, feel left out, not want to change the status quo – or perhaps just completely against it!

When faced with a lot of resistance at home, a good approach seems to be to not even try to change their mind. Keep doing your Paleo thing – and hope that by being a good example, eventually your good health will speak for itself.

If you do the cooking, you have a far easier job. You can continue to cook – but just keep it Paleo. If they object, they’ll have to make their own – it’s their choice. If they usually cook and aren’t prepared to make it Paleo, you’re going to need to start cooking and preparing your own food.

Do you have a supportive partner? Did you come to Paleo at different times? Any tips you have for dealing with a none supportive partner – please share in the comments below and help someone out!

Supportive Partner and Family Support on the Paleo Diet

Understanding the Root of Resistance

When embarking on a Paleo lifestyle, it's essential to recognize that your partner's resistance may stem from various sources. They might feel threatened by changes to shared routines, fear being judged for their eating habits, or simply lack understanding of the Paleo diet's benefits. Acknowledging these feelings can pave the way for empathy and open dialogue.

Effective Communication Strategies

Open and honest communication is crucial. Share your reasons for adopting the Paleo diet, emphasizing personal health goals and well-being. Instead of dictating changes, invite your partner to ask questions and express concerns. This collaborative approach fosters mutual respect and understanding.

Lead by Example

Actions often speak louder than words. Demonstrate the positive impacts of the Paleo lifestyle through your increased energy, improved mood, and overall health. Your partner may become more receptive when they observe tangible benefits firsthand.

Inclusive Meal Planning

Involve your partner in meal planning and preparation. Explore Paleo recipes together and find dishes that appeal to both of you. This shared experience can transform mealtime into an opportunity for bonding rather than a point of contention.

Respect Individual Choices

It's important to respect your partner's autonomy. While you can share your experiences and knowledge, avoid pressuring them to adopt the Paleo diet. Allow them to make their own informed decisions at their own pace.

Establish Boundaries

Set clear boundaries regarding your dietary choices. For instance, you might request that certain non-Paleo foods be kept separate or that shared meals accommodate your dietary needs. Clear boundaries help prevent misunderstandings and maintain harmony.

Seek Support Outside the Relationship

If your partner remains unsupportive, consider seeking encouragement from friends, online communities, or local Paleo groups. Connecting with like-minded individuals can provide motivation and a sense of belonging.

Educate Through Resources

Provide your partner with resources such as books, documentaries, or articles that explain the Paleo diet's principles and benefits. Sometimes, information from external sources can be more persuasive and less emotionally charged.

Celebrate Small Wins

Acknowledge and celebrate any positive steps your partner takes toward understanding or supporting your lifestyle. Positive reinforcement can encourage continued openness and participation.

Be Patient and Compassionate

Change often takes time. Practice patience and compassion as your partner navigates their feelings and beliefs about the Paleo diet. Your understanding can create a supportive environment conducive to growth and acceptance.

Focus on Shared Goals

Identify common goals, such as improved health, increased energy, or spending quality time together. Aligning your Paleo lifestyle with these shared objectives can foster cooperation and mutual motivation.

Adapt Social Activities

Modify social activities to accommodate both your dietary preferences and your partner's comfort. For example, choose restaurants with diverse menu options or host gatherings where both Paleo and non-Paleo dishes are available.

Address Emotional Eating

Recognize that food can be tied to emotions and comfort. If your partner uses food as a coping mechanism, approach the topic sensitively and consider seeking professional support to address underlying issues.

Maintain Flexibility

While adhering to the Paleo diet, allow for flexibility in certain situations to reduce tension. Occasional compromises can demonstrate respect for your partner's preferences and encourage reciprocal understanding.

Reevaluate Relationship Dynamics

If persistent conflicts arise due to lifestyle differences, it may be necessary to reevaluate the relationship dynamics. Consider couples counseling to address deeper issues and develop strategies for mutual support and respect.

Encourage Joint Health Goals

Propose setting joint health goals that align with both your interests. Whether it's engaging in physical activities together or exploring new healthy recipes, shared objectives can strengthen your bond and promote a supportive environment.

Practice Self-Care

Prioritize your well-being by engaging in self-care practices that reinforce your commitment to the Paleo lifestyle. This might include regular exercise, mindfulness activities, or connecting with supportive communities.

Stay Informed and Adaptable

Continuously educate yourself about the Paleo diet and remain open to adapting your approach as needed. Flexibility and a willingness to learn can enhance your ability to navigate challenges with your partner effectively.

Document Your Journey

Keep a journal to track your experiences, challenges, and successes. Reflecting on your journey can provide insights into your progress and serve as a valuable tool for personal growth and communication with your partner.

Celebrate Your Commitment

Acknowledge your dedication to the Paleo lifestyle and the positive changes it brings to your life. Celebrating your commitment can reinforce your motivation and inspire those around you, including your partner.

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6 Perspectives of Paleo

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I couldn't resist jumping on the bandwagon & creating what I think are the 6 perspectives of Paleo.

Humorous meme showing six different perceptions of the Paleo diet

The 6 Perspectives of Paleo – Why Everyone Thinks You're Doing It Wrong

One of the more entertaining aspects of adopting a Paleo lifestyle is discovering just how wildly misunderstood it is. As soon as you tell someone you’re “doing Paleo,” it’s like a Rorschach test — everyone projects something completely different onto you.

I created the meme above to highlight the six most common perspectives people seem to have when they hear the word “Paleo.” It's funny because, well, it's painfully accurate. Let’s break it down, shall we?

1. How My Friends Think I Eat: Two Sad Lettuce Leaves on a Plate

To some of your mates, “Paleo” is just the trendy diet where you nibble on leaves and pretend to enjoy it. You must be starving, surely? When they see you pass on the burger bun or opt for sparkling water instead of a beer, they imagine your entire life has become a joyless parade of rabbit food.

This perception comes from the conflation of “healthy eating” with restriction — and from a culture that’s been told for decades that fat is bad and salads are the only path to thinness. What they miss is that Paleo meals are often hearty, satisfying, and rich in flavour and nutrients.

2. How My Family Think I Eat: The Government Food Pyramid Reimagined

Family members, especially older generations, often visualise Paleo through the lens of conventional dietary guidelines. They picture a colourful plate with grains, fruit juice, and maybe a dollop of low-fat yoghurt. If you try explaining that grains are out and full-fat is in, you might be met with raised eyebrows and concerned questions about cholesterol.

Many families still regard the food pyramid or MyPlate model as gospel. When you disrupt that with your pasture-raised eggs, organ meats, and coconut oil, it challenges long-held beliefs — and that can be confronting.

3. How Society Thinks I Eat: Like a Caveman, Possibly with a Club

To the general public, “Paleo” often gets written off as some primal cosplay where you swing a club and gnaw on raw meat while wearing a loincloth. There’s a strange tendency to take the term literally and imagine Paleo people living like our ancient ancestors in every sense — never mind the advances in cooking, nutrition, and food sourcing.

This view often stems from misunderstanding. Paleo isn’t about mimicking cavemen exactly — it’s about eating real, whole foods our bodies evolved to thrive on, while ditching modern, industrialised food products. It’s not about “eating like a caveman,” it’s about eating in a way that aligns with human biology.

4. How the Media Think I Eat: Meat, Meat and More Meat

Mainstream media loves extremes, and when it comes to Paleo, the meat obsession angle makes headlines. Paleo gets lumped in with keto or carnivore, and suddenly it’s all about steak, bacon, and giant hunks of beef. Balanced meals full of vegetables, herbs, fermented foods, and nourishing fats don’t make for good clickbait.

Sure, Paleo does encourage meat — but it’s about quality over quantity. We’re talking grass-fed, free-range, ethically sourced meat as part of a diverse, colourful plate that also includes vegetables, healthy fats, herbs, and bone broth. Media portrayals rarely show that side of the story.

5. How I Think I Eat: Instagram-Worthy Paleo Perfection

Then there’s your own perception. You imagine yourself whipping up stunning rainbow salads, grilled meats with vibrant herbs, and coconut-milk panna cotta topped with fresh berries. You plan to meal prep every Sunday, spiralise zucchini, ferment your own kraut, and always have bone broth on the go.

You picture Paleo perfection. But…

6. How I Actually Eat: Bacon. A Lot of Bacon.

Reality check. Some days it’s just bacon. Or leftover steak from dinner. Or a bunch of nuts and an emergency boiled egg. Life gets in the way of perfection, and that’s fine.

The beauty of the Paleo lifestyle is that it’s flexible and forgiving. It’s not about eating picture-perfect meals or living up to some Instagram ideal — it’s about making better choices, one meal at a time.

So, What Is Paleo Really About?

If you strip away the memes, misunderstandings, and media hype, Paleo is incredibly simple:

  • Eat real food: meat, seafood, eggs, vegetables, fruit, nuts, seeds, herbs, spices, and natural fats.
  • Avoid processed foods, grains, industrial seed oils, refined sugar, dairy (unless tolerated), and legumes.
  • Sleep well, move naturally, get outside, manage stress, and live intentionally.

In short, it’s a lifestyle that encourages health through ancestral principles, not a rigid list of rules.

Why This Matters — Especially in Australia

In Australia, where supermarket aisles are stacked with ultra-processed convenience foods and healthy eating still revolves around Weet-Bix and skim milk, Paleo challenges the norm. It asks us to question the way we’ve always done things — and to pay closer attention to how food affects our health.

From autoimmune conditions to metabolic syndrome and food intolerances, many Australians are discovering that simply removing modern foods and returning to a more natural diet can have a dramatic impact on how they feel, sleep, think, and move.

Let’s Redefine What Healthy Looks Like

Maybe you don’t eat like a caveman. Maybe you’ve got bacon in your fridge and fermented carrots on the bench. Maybe you fast sometimes. Maybe you don’t. Maybe you have days where your Paleo “perfect” is a bit more relaxed.

That’s ok.

Paleo is a journey — one that’s personal, flexible, and ultimately about living better. If you're curious, the best way to understand it is not by googling another list of forbidden foods — but by trying it for 30 days, listening to your body, and seeing how you feel.

Over to You

How do people respond when you say you eat Paleo? Do you get confused stares, concerned lectures, or enthusiastic curiosity? Have you noticed these same six reactions in your own life?

Drop your story in the comments — or tag a fellow Paleo friend who gets it.

Let’s keep the conversation going and continue busting myths about what Paleo really is — and what it isn’t.